My husband, Matt, and I became parents to twin boys in 2015, just days before the LDS Church announced its policy about children of same-sex couples.
Since then, we’ve seen some remarkable actions taking place among members. My stepfather wrote to his former neighbor, Dallin H. Oaks, urging him to view the matter in a new light. My mother – not typically one to rock the boat – spoke openly of her difficulty in reconciling the church’s position.
My best friend’s parents began diverting their tithing contributions to LGBT causes. The bishop in our new neighborhood took initiative to keep tabs on us and visit us.
On my mission, I remember telling people not to judge the LDS Church by the actions of its fallible members, and that they could rely on church leadership not to lead them astray. In this case, though, it seems those flawed members have held their leadership accountable to acting like Christians. I’m proud of them, and grateful, for that.
Rich Warner III, Salt Lake City