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‘Mormon Land’: Good sex is not a sin. It’s part of God’s plan for married couples in LDS theology.

Members understand the warning against sex outside of marriage, but some struggle with its divine approval inside of wedlock.

(Illustration by Christopher Cherrington | The Salt Lake Tribune)

Passion. Intimacy. Eroticism. Arousal. Sex.

These terms are as much a part of God’s plan in the theology of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints as agency, repentance and baptism. Yet they are rarely discussed or even mentioned — save for in hushed, almost apologetic, tones — among members.

Such hesitancy is not found in Latter-day Saint therapist Jennifer Finlayson-Fife’s new book, “That We Might Have Joy: Desire, Divinity & Intimate Love.” In it, she writes, for instance, that “the best sex is never hard work. Good sex is easy” and “the turn-on for most women is being the turn-on” and, finally, “our bodies and sensual natures are not obstacles to holiness, but essential components of it.”

(Amazon) Latter-day Saint sex therapist Jennifer Finlayson-Fife's new book.

(Faith Matters) Latter-day Saint sex therapist Jennifer Finlayson-Fife says God wants married couples of enjoy "soulful sex."

By setting aside cultural taboos, Finlayson-Fife shows that the bedroom is a bedrock not just in marriage but also in Mormonism.

On this week’s podcast, she sheds light on how “soulful sex” can bring couples closer to each other and closer to God.

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