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Letter: Some advice for young people: “Don’t listen to Dallin Oaks”

(The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints) President Dallin H. Oaks of the First Presidency of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and his wife, Kristen, speak to young adults at a worldwide devotional broadcast from the Conference Center Theater on Temple Square in Salt Lake City on Sunday, May 21, 2023.

Dallin Oaks, first counselor in the First Presidency of the LDS Church, tells young Mormons to get married and have as many children as possible. Do it now. Do it quickly. He said: Don’t worry about school debt or buying a house. Don’t worry about finances; just get married and pump out kids.

When you are in your 20s and have three kids and debt up to your garments, you no longer have many choices about your life. Things are pretty much laid out.

My advice to young people is travel the world, follow your dreams, have fun, fall in love at least a dozen times, don’t have kids until you are settled, don’t settle until you are ready. And whatever you do, don’t listen to Dallin Oaks.

Trent Harris, Salt Lake City

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