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Letter: Let’s be clear — Hugs are an enriching part of many people’s lives

(Rick Egan | The Salt Lake Tribune) Richard Paul Evans speaks during the annual ceremony for grieving parents at the Christmas Box Angel, at the Salt Lake City Cemetery, Saturday, December 6, 2014

While watching the KSL Primary Children’s Telethon, I saw all kinds of hugs: hugs of appreciation, sympathy, empathy, recognition and human understanding. On KSL I also saw Al Roker give a car and a hug to a needy mother. He got a hug in return. I come from a family of huggers. On rare occasions I have been moved to hug someone and saw them step back; I got it and understood. We all know when to step back, and it works.

I know teachers who actually retired early because of fear that someone might complain that they hugged their child. Children quite often are huggers. I read about Richard Paul Evans and others not being invited back to FanX because of some woman’s complaint over a hug. If Evans were asked back and chose to come, perhaps his signing table could have two lines and signs saying hugs to the left and non-huggers to the right.

Good grief! What are we coming to? I do not agree with Layton author Mette Ivie Harrison, who writes fantasy novels (The Tribune, May 5). Not every hugger is a harasser.

Adeline Jouflas, Holladay