At the end of another 60-hour workweek, Comer finally closes his Twitter app for the final time. He arrives home, kisses his two young children goodnight, thanks his mother-in-law for watching them and puts his head on the pillow. He has to rise early tomorrow to see his wife, Shannon.
He weaves through the South Ogden Post-Acute facility until he reaches Shannon's room, where she's resting in an adjustable bed. As he enters, she smiles — her main form of communication these days. Shannon was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis (MS) in high school in 2006, and the disease has left her disabled.
She struggles to vocalize her thoughts, though she occasionally does manage several words. Her motor functions are random, with movements in her extremities often appearing to have a mind of their own — common symptoms for someone living with severe MS. According to the National Multiple Sclerosis Society, MS is an unpredictable, often disabling disease of the central nervous system that disrupts the flow of information within the brain, and between the brain and body.
Ryan sits adjacent to Shannon and cups her smaller hand between his two palms.
"She's always smiling," he says. "She has a really happy personality, even when all of this is going on."
'I didn't even know what it was'
Ryan was lovestruck when he noticed a sophomore while he was studying journalism as a senior at BYU. He asked her on a date to Smart Cookie, a Provo-based ice cream shop.
It was like any other first date in the beginning, with simple, harmless questions to learn more about the person sitting across from you. Then Shannon revealed she had MS.
"I didn't even know what it was," Ryan said. "I heard it was bad, but I had no idea what it did to people. You couldn't tell it did anything. She was just like any other college student, so I was like, 'Whatever.' She thought I would be a lot more nervous than I was."
Their relationship progressed, and Ryan asked for her hand in marriage. They were married in May 2009.
Ryan was working for DirecTV and Shannon was at a temp agency when she suffered the first major attack in July of 2009.
"She had a seizure and was in a coma," Ryan said. "The neurologists thought she was going to be a vegetable the rest of her life. They were preparing me for the worst-case scenario."
But Shannon pulled through. She steadily regained her health, and life returned to usual. So the couple decided parenthood was the next step, and two baby boys soon joined their family. Shannon suffered only minor flareups throughout her pregnancies.
When asked what it's like being parents, Shannon manages to express her thoughts. "Awesome," she says.