We were legally married May 22, 2008, in Victoria, British Columbia. Once we came back to Utah we were no longer legally married and we were OK with that, because we were married in our hearts, and in our hearts God had sanctified our wedding.
We didn’t need a church to tell us that, as our relationship with God is personal and is what matters. Plus we knew our marriage was honored in other places (now by our federal government, just this year, five years after our wedding).
Same-sex couples are not asking to have their marriages sanctified by churches. We are asking for the state of Utah to sanctify our marriages so we have the rights and privileges to take care of ourselves and each other in our marriages. That’s what this is all about. It’s quite simple, really!
Billy and Jon Lewis-Croft
South Salt Lake
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