According to "Vatican digs in after gay marriage advances" (Tribune, Nov. 11), the Catholic Church opposes same-sex marriages because "Catholic teaching holds that homosexuals should be respected and treated with dignity but that homosexual acts are 'intrinsically disordered.'" If you truly believe the former, how can you believe the latter?
Being polite and kind is not treating someone with dignity, which means "the quality of being worthy or esteemed." How is denying a life of committed love to someone wired to be attracted to the same sex treating them with esteem?
Of what worth do you esteem them to be worthy of? Of being an emotional eunuch? It's that self-fulfilling approach that makes them "disordered."
Catholics aren't treating gay men with dignity; they aren't treating them as worthy men created with liberty and the freedom to pursue happiness in their own way. No, with marriage, it's the pursuit of happiness the Catholic way even if you're not Catholic or not at all.
That how it was in the Middle Ages, not in 21st century America.
Salt Lake City
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