A little more than a year ago, eight LDS women got together in a Facebook message group, then created a private FB page. Now the group has 245 members and grows larger by the day.
And it's not just online.
Mama Dragons run support groups for gay Mormons, their families and even allies in other groups, including Family Fellowship, Affirmation and Mormons Building Bridges. They set up a speakers bureau of moms willing to help educate fellow believers and the public. They helped open the Youth Futures Shelter in Ogden for homeless kids.
The Dragons open their homes to gay Mormons fleeing their families for fear of retribution or shunning. They invite lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender kids over for dinner on holidays or anytime the young people feel lonely or, sometimes, suicidal.
On two occasions, several Mamas traveled together to funerals to support mothers of young gay Mormons who took their lives.
In the wake of last month's LDS General Conference, some of these women ran into apostle Neil L. Andersen at a restaurant. They expressed their concerns — during that conversation and, later, in a letter to him — about the repeated emphasis in sermons on marriage between a man and a woman.
During one session, for example, L. Tom Perry, second in line for the Mormon presidency, urged members to defend "traditional families" — a legally married mother and father, who rear their children together — and warned about the dangers of "counterfeit and alternative lifestyles."
Diane Oviatt is among the Dragons' organizers.
In an unusual 2010 Mormon meeting in the Bay Area, Oviatt described holding her sobbing gay son in a darkened kitchen as he poured out years of grief at the secret he had been carrying for 18 years and wondered how he would get to heaven without marrying.
This past February, Oviatt posed a question to apostle Dallin H. Oaks, who was speaking at a women's meeting associated with her LDS stake conference (a regional gathering of Mormon congregations).
"I stood up and told him that gay Mormon kids are killing themselves and stalwart families are leaving the church over this," Oviatt writes in an email. "I asked him if he could please stand up in General Conference and at least tell parents not to kick their kids out, to love them as is, because people won't listen until it comes over the pulpit at conference."
In the October 2012 conference, Oaks addressed that concern.
"Young people struggling with any exceptional condition, including same-gender attraction, are particularly vulnerable and need loving understanding — not bullying or ostracism," he said. "With the help of the Lord, we can repent and change and be more loving and helpful to children — our own and those around us."
Bountiful resident Alyson Deussen got involved with the Dragons after her 14-year-old gay son attempted suicide.
"We were in complete shock, had all these emotions, and were thinking, 'What can I do?' " Deussen says. "I didn't have any resources, and it's not something you strike up a conversation with your neighbor about."