Celebrate being together

Traditions » Author Jennifer Trainer has assembled some simple ways that groups and families celebrate togetherness in her new book, The Joy of Family Traditions (Ten Speed Press, $16.95). Among them: Pay tribute. One way to pay tribute to someone who has passed away is to use a special piece of china or a serving dish that was owned by him, or make one of his favorite recipes. Use these objects or foods to allow your family to remember the person who is gone.

IHOP gets you discounts

Gift cards » Purchase a $25 gift card at IHOP before Jan. 4 and receive a $5 coupon for a future visit at participating locations. To find a location, visit ihop.com.

Bag it for your tween

Gift idea » Don't know what to get that tween this year? Rebelle friendship bags come with the Rebelle story of six girls from around the world who met at summer camp and became pen pals. Each bag includes a meaningful quote that girls can apply to their own lives as well as registration to the Rebelle Girls Friendship Club, a safe place for online friendship and cultural exchange. The butterfly bags cost $40 and are available at fao.com. For more information. visit www.friendshipbags.com.