FRIEND - The Salt Lake Tribune http://www.sltrib.com/feeds/topics/FRIEND News from The Salt Lake Tribune en-us webmaster@sltrib.com (Webmaster) Question of ‘is this all there is’ creeping in http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58211165-223/carolyn-dear-boyfriend-family.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58211165-223/carolyn-dear-boyfriend-family.html.csp">Question of ‘is this all there is’ creeping in</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-07-26T01:01:02.865-06:00">Updated Jul 26, 2014 01:01AM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">Dear Carolyn • I’m in my mid-40s and I guess finally having my midlife crisis. After watching my friend’s husband die of brain cancer at 52, I’m acutely aware that life can change in an instant. I am happily married and have a young daughter, but seem to be wondering, “Is this all there is?” I really want a change, to make the most of the time I have left with my family. How do I get rid of this feeling that my time is running out? 45 Dear 45 • Interesting timing. I received this question the ...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58211165@www.sltrib.com Sat, 26 Jul 2014 01:01:02 MDT Marathon suspect’s friend guilty of impeding probe http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/world/58206815-68/friend-guilty-impeding-marathon.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/world/58206815-68/friend-guilty-impeding-marathon.html.csp">Marathon suspect’s friend guilty of impeding probe</a></h4> <span class="author source-org vcard"><span class="org fn">The Associated Press</span></span> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-07-21T11:48:02.118-06:00">Updated Jul 21, 2014 11:48AM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">Boston • A college friend of Boston Marathon bombing suspect Dzhokhar Tsarnaev (joh-HAHR’ tsahr-NEYE’-ehv) has been convicted of impeding the investigation into the attack. Azamat Tazhayakov (AZ’-maht tuh-ZAY’-uh-kahv) was found guilty Monday of obstruction of justice and conspiracy. Prosecutors say he agreed with a friend who removed Tsarnaev’s backpack from his dorm room several days after the 2013 bombing. The backpack contained altered fireworks. Tazhayakov’s lawyers argued that the other fr...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="#license-582068152014-07-21T11:48:02.118-06:00" id="#license-2014-07-21T11:48:02.118-06:00"> Copyright 2013 The Associated Press. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58206815@www.sltrib.com Mon, 21 Jul 2014 11:48:02 MDT Friends recall shooter in Logan murder-suicide as ‘loyal’ and ‘kind’ http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/news/58187393-78/tolman-larson-jared-logan.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/news/58187393-78/tolman-larson-jared-logan.html.csp">Friends recall shooter in Logan murder-suicide as ‘loyal’ and ‘kind’</a></h4> <span class="author vcard"><span class="fn">By Harry Stevens</span></span> <span class="source-org vcard"><span class="org fn"> The Salt Lake Tribune</span></span> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-07-16T09:22:35.739-06:00">Updated Jul 16, 2014 09:22AM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">When Jordan Larson first heard Monday that his friend Jared Tolman had killed two people and then himself that morning in Logan, he didn’t believe it. “I am very sorry to everyone involved, and I don’t want to defend his actions, but he absolutely was not that kind of person,” Larson, who grew up with Tolman in Spokane, Wash., said in a Facebook message. From the time they met in the fifth grade, when they were about 10 years old, Larson and Tolman were inseparable. They lived in the same neigh...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58187393@www.sltrib.com Wed, 16 Jul 2014 09:22:35 MDT One comment and it was like a fog lifted http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58105284-223/relationship-abusive-friend-bad.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58105284-223/relationship-abusive-friend-bad.html.csp">One comment and it was like a fog lifted</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-07-02T16:25:05.623-06:00">Updated Jul 2, 2014 04:25PM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">While I’m away, readers give the advice. On speaking up to friends in abusive relationships • Years ago I was in an emotionally abusive relationship that I couldn’t see for myself. I was recently divorced, my head was spinning and I was feeling like a horrible failure. I’ll never forget when a close friend asked me, “Do you realize you always make excuses for her behavior?” Suddenly my mental fog lifted. It was a moment that changed my life and led to me ending the abusive relationship. Years...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58105284@www.sltrib.com Wed, 02 Jul 2014 16:25:05 MDT Friend: Ref punched, critically injured during game is loved by many http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/world/58137136-68/game-punched-acho-bieniewicz.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/world/58137136-68/game-punched-acho-bieniewicz.html.csp">Friend: Ref punched, critically injured during game is loved by many</a></h4> <span class="author vcard"><span class="fn">By MIKE HOUSEHOLDER</span></span> <span class="source-org vcard"><span class="org fn"> The Associated Press</span></span> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-07-01T08:16:02.747-06:00">Updated Jul 1, 2014 08:16AM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">Livonia, Mich. • A friend says a Detroit-area man who was critically injured while refereeing a soccer match is an optimist who “never has a bad day.” John Bieniewicz (BEN’-uh-wits) is in critical condition at a hospital after being punched by a player at a Sunday game in Livonia. High school classmate and attorney Jim Acho (A’-choh) said Tuesday that Bieniewicz is a dialysis technician at a children’s hospital. He lives in Westland with his wife and two sons. Acho says Bieniewicz was a high sch...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="#license-581371362014-07-01T08:16:02.747-06:00" id="#license-2014-07-01T08:16:02.747-06:00"> Copyright 2013 The Associated Press. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58137136@www.sltrib.com Tue, 01 Jul 2014 08:16:02 MDT Family of detained American fearful of prison term http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/world/58132515-68/family-fowle-acts-american.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/world/58132515-68/family-fowle-acts-american.html.csp">Family of detained American fearful of prison term</a></h4> <span class="author vcard"><span class="fn">By AMANDA LEE MYERS</span></span> <span class="source-org vcard"><span class="org fn"> The Associated Press</span></span> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-06-30T11:54:13.617-06:00">Updated Jun 30, 2014 11:54AM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">Cincinnati • A friend of an American man accused of hostile acts in North Korea says the detainee’s family is devastated by the situation and hoping for the best while preparing for the worst. Jeffrey Edward Fowle, a 56-year-old Ohio father of three, arrived in North Korea on April 29. In June, North Korea’s state media said authorities were investigating him for committing acts inconsistent with a tourist visit. On Monday, the agency said investigations into Fowle and another American, Matthew ...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="#license-581325152014-06-30T11:54:13.617-06:00" id="#license-2014-06-30T11:54:13.617-06:00"> Copyright 2013 The Associated Press. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58132515@www.sltrib.com Mon, 30 Jun 2014 11:54:13 MDT Letter: My gay children are also God’s children http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/opinion/58105128-82/god-gay-friend-vietnam.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/opinion/58105128-82/god-gay-friend-vietnam.html.csp">Letter: My gay children are also God’s children</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-06-24T16:24:01.995-06:00">Updated Jun 24, 2014 04:24PM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">As a senior at West High School, my friend and I would run on the track at night, because we both agreed we would enlist in the Army after graduation, and we were getting ready for “boot camp.” I told my friend that if I should die in Vietnam, my only regret would be I never had children. By the grace of God, we both returned home safe from Vietnam. I married and had children. Some of my children are lesbian and gay. I thank God with all my heart for my children and couldn’t love them any m...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58105128@www.sltrib.com Tue, 24 Jun 2014 16:24:01 MDT No easy fix when you crush on friend’s girl http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58047165-223/carolyn-dear-baby-bad.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58047165-223/carolyn-dear-baby-bad.html.csp">No easy fix when you crush on friend’s girl</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-06-19T01:01:01.89-06:00">Updated Jun 19, 2014 01:01AM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">Dear Carolyn • About a year ago I developed a crush on a female friend, whose boyfriend I also know independently of her. I suspect the attraction was mutual but we never acted on it. However, I am pretty sure the boyfriend noticed, because I am pretty sure he hates me. Seething hatred. He tries to hide it and behave cordially toward me, but the tension is obvious. I’ve tried reaching out to him to hang out, but it always feels forced. Any suggestions for defusing this tension? Hated Dear Hate...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58047165@www.sltrib.com Thu, 19 Jun 2014 01:01:01 MDT Letter: Cantor’s party can’t be trusted http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/opinion/58060847-82/cantor-party-friend-eric.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/opinion/58060847-82/cantor-party-friend-eric.html.csp">Letter: Cantor’s party can’t be trusted</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-06-13T16:52:01.243-06:00">Updated Jun 13, 2014 04:52PM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">How often do you hear about someone who has been living with, taking care of, and bragging to everyone about what a wonderful friend he has. One day this friend turns on him, and he finds himself running for his life. This is what happened to Eric Cantor. After kowtowing to the tea party for years, he was found to be ideologically impure and the tea party turned against him. A political party that judges your worthiness for office by your ideological purity can’t be trusted. Just ask Eric Can...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58060847@www.sltrib.com Fri, 13 Jun 2014 16:52:01 MDT Utah Jazz: UCLA guard, Favors friend Jordan Adams highlights latest workout http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/jazz/58061991-87/adams-jazz-ucla-friend.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/jazz/58061991-87/adams-jazz-ucla-friend.html.csp">Utah Jazz: UCLA guard, Favors friend Jordan Adams highlights latest workout</a></h4> <span class="author vcard"><span class="fn">By Aaron Falk</span></span> <span class="source-org vcard"><span class="org fn"> The Salt Lake Tribune</span></span> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-06-12T23:24:37.077-06:00">Updated Jun 12, 2014 11:24PM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">Jordan Adams remembers a time when his childhood friend could barely make a layup. That friend? Jazz center Derrick Favors, who was a part of the same Atlanta AAU program as Adams. “To see what he’s become now is actually amazing,” Adams says with a smile. “He’s come a long way.” Now the 19-year-old Adams wants to show NBA teams how far his game has come, too. And, as he worked out for the Jazz on Thursday, Adams said he wouldn’t mind a reunion with his friend Favors. Adams, the UCLA shooting gu...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58061991@www.sltrib.com Thu, 12 Jun 2014 23:24:37 MDT Monson: I was wrong about O.J. and right about Arnie http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/sports/58060527-77/simpson-palmer-file-cowlings.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/sports/58060527-77/simpson-palmer-file-cowlings.html.csp">Monson: I was wrong about O.J. and right about Arnie</a></h4> <span class="author vcard"><span class="fn">By gordon Monson</span></span> <span class="author vcard"><span class="fn"> Tribune Columnist</span></span> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-06-12T23:24:37.637-06:00">Updated Jun 12, 2014 11:24PM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">I was wrong about O.J. Simpson. When people used to ask me who, of all the thousands of sports figures I’ve interviewed, were the most personally impressive, two names always rocketed to the top of the list. And they were inexorably linked 20 years ago, on that strange day of June 17, 1994. O.J. was one. And Arnold Palmer was the other. At about the same moment Simpson rolled across Los Angeles freeways in his white Ford Bronco, with former teammate and chauffeur Al Cowlings at the wheel, and w...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58060527@www.sltrib.com Thu, 12 Jun 2014 23:24:37 MDT Vets, visitors flock to Normandy to remember D-Day http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/world/58036340-68/normandy-grave-visitors-clifford.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/world/58036340-68/normandy-grave-visitors-clifford.html.csp">Vets, visitors flock to Normandy to remember D-Day</a></h4> <span class="author vcard"><span class="fn">By GREG KELLER</span></span> <span class="source-org vcard"><span class="org fn"> The Associated Press</span></span> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-06-06T10:47:18.364-06:00">Updated Jun 6, 2014 10:47AM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">Colleville-Sur-Mer, France • Ceremonies to commemorate the 70th anniversary of D-Day are drawing thousands of visitors to the cemeteries, beaches and stone-walled villages of Normandy this week, including some of the few remaining survivors of the largest sea-borne invasion ever mounted. World leaders and dignitaries including President Barack Obama and Queen Elizabeth II will gather to honor the more than 150,000 American, British, Canadian and other Allied D-Day veterans who risked and gave th...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="#license-580363402014-06-06T10:47:18.364-06:00" id="#license-2014-06-06T10:47:18.364-06:00"> Copyright 2013 The Associated Press. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58036340@www.sltrib.com Fri, 06 Jun 2014 10:47:18 MDT Mormon magazines talking more and more about female modesty http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/blogsfaithblog/58028697-180/modesty-lds-magazines-mormon.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/blogsfaithblog/58028697-180/modesty-lds-magazines-mormon.html.csp">Mormon magazines talking more and more about female modesty</a></h4> <span class="author vcard"><span class="fn">THE SALT LAKE TRIBUNE</span></span> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-06-04T16:55:33.994-06:00">Updated Jun 4, 2014 04:55PM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">It’s not just Utah high school yearbooks that are concerned about the sight of women’s bare shoulders or upper arms — LDS Church magazines are, too. The importance of female modesty — including the aforementioned body parts — has been on the rise in official LDS magazines since 2000, according to a survey published Wednesday in a Mormon blog, Zelophehadsdaughters. A researcher who goes by the handle Ziff used Google to search three LDS publications — the Ensign for adults, the New Era for teens ...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58028697@www.sltrib.com Wed, 04 Jun 2014 16:55:33 MDT