CAROLYN - The Salt Lake Tribune http://www.sltrib.com/feeds/topics/CAROLYN News from The Salt Lake Tribune en-us webmaster@sltrib.com (Webmaster) Empty nest presents new family problems http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58420194-223/parents-spouse-carolyn-child.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58420194-223/parents-spouse-carolyn-child.html.csp">Empty nest presents new family problems</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-09-23T01:01:02.642-06:00">Updated Sep 23, 2014 01:01AM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">Dear Carolyn • My spouse and I are on the cusp of what feels like the next phase in our lives. Our only child is a senior in high school and is very excited about going off to college next year. My spouse is finishing up his MBA in January and looking for new career opportunities. I am in a contract (teacher) until next summer, but I could look for another position at any time. My spouse has been yearning since his teen years to leave the Southeast. I felt the same need for “escape” in my 20s, b...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58420194@www.sltrib.com Tue, 23 Sep 2014 01:01:02 MDT Independence builds better relationships http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58420193-223/move-alone-boyfriend-carolyn.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58420193-223/move-alone-boyfriend-carolyn.html.csp">Independence builds better relationships</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-09-20T01:01:03.686-06:00">Updated Sep 20, 2014 01:01AM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">Dear Carolyn • I moved back in with my parents after college to save money and have been here ever since (three years). I have a good job and support myself, but I just haven’t felt motivated to move till now because of the savings. But my boyfriend of almost two years says it cramps his style to visit me at my parents’ home. After some discussion, we decided I would move in with him. I’m especially excited because it seems like a great way to stake out some independence without paying exorbitan...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58420193@www.sltrib.com Sat, 20 Sep 2014 01:01:03 MDT Use aunt’s outbursts as teachable moment http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58394684-223/family-husband-aunt-carolyn.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58394684-223/family-husband-aunt-carolyn.html.csp">Use aunt’s outbursts as teachable moment</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-09-18T01:01:04.574-06:00">Updated Sep 18, 2014 01:01AM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">Dear Carolyn • My husband has a sister with what seems to be a severe mood disorder. She will appear to be doing fine, then out of nowhere explode and scream at the top of her lungs at anyone. Their parents seem to brush it off, like nothing is happening, but I worry about the image this sends to my young son. It will never be appropriate for him to yell, especially at his family; why can his aunt do it? She also manipulates my husband; it really isn’t a good situation. She is family, I am torn....</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58394684@www.sltrib.com Thu, 18 Sep 2014 01:01:04 MDT Bride would like to honor both fathers http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58394681-223/bride-wants-parents-carolyn.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58394681-223/bride-wants-parents-carolyn.html.csp">Bride would like to honor both fathers</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-09-16T01:01:02.556-06:00">Updated Sep 16, 2014 01:01AM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">Dear Carolyn • Long story short, I left my then husband for my current husband when my kids were 5 and 7. They spent time with bio dad, but basically lived with me and their stepfather. Fast-forward 19 years. Our daughter is getting married and wants to have both of them walk her down the aisle. She wants to honor both men as they were both fathers to her. Understandably bio dad is not comfortable with this and told her because he is her biological dad it should be his privilege. Stepfather is O...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58394681@www.sltrib.com Tue, 16 Sep 2014 01:01:02 MDT My kids are grown, now what do I do? http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58394678-223/carolyn-college-daughter-dear.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58394678-223/carolyn-college-daughter-dear.html.csp">My kids are grown, now what do I do?</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-09-13T01:01:03.235-06:00">Updated Sep 13, 2014 01:01AM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">Dear Carolyn • I am a single mother of two fantastic kids; my son is a college senior and my daughter is a junior in high school. This week, while registering for a college tour for my daughter it suddenly hit me, and hit me hard, that “someday” is almost here — that day in the distant future when the kids are grown and out of the house. I find myself crushed by the reality of it. My son is planning to move to the opposite coast after graduation and my daughter nearly quivers with anticipation w...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58394678@www.sltrib.com Sat, 13 Sep 2014 01:01:03 MDT It would be foolish to move in before divorce http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58365967-223/divorce-carolyn-fool-move.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58365967-223/divorce-carolyn-fool-move.html.csp">It would be foolish to move in before divorce</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-09-12T01:01:03.172-06:00">Updated Sep 12, 2014 01:01AM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">Dear Carolyn • I’m 38 and involved with a same-age man. We are in love and it’s the kind of relationship that has shown me everything that was missing from prior relationships. We’ve been dating for just shy of six months and are starting to discuss living together, which would also be a first. The catch is that he’s been separated from his wife for the last four years. I had nothing to do with their marriage ending so I don’t feel guilty about my involvement with him. However she has been dragg...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58365967@www.sltrib.com Fri, 12 Sep 2014 01:01:03 MDT Daughter distraught over parents’ response http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58365964-223/family-parents-carolyn-close.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58365964-223/family-parents-carolyn-close.html.csp">Daughter distraught over parents’ response</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-09-06T01:01:03.2-06:00">Updated Sep 6, 2014 01:01AM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">Dear Carolyn • I wrote in a few weeks ago for advice (http://wapo.st/1yV32nQ) about telling my folks that my “happy” marriage was ending in divorce. I am happy to say I survived telling them but am SO disappointed in their response. They needed someone to blame and chose me, their kid. In the weeks since I told them, they have had very little communication with me. When I’ve spoken to them, they have repeated that they cannot believe I would do this or that they raised me to be this way. I’m obv...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58365964@www.sltrib.com Sat, 06 Sep 2014 01:01:03 MDT Nephew wants a My Little Pony lunchbox http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58339536-223/girl-carolyn-picked-pony.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58339536-223/girl-carolyn-picked-pony.html.csp">Nephew wants a My Little Pony lunchbox</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-09-04T01:01:03.44-06:00">Updated Sep 4, 2014 01:01AM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">Dear Carolyn • I have a 5-year-old nephew who is starting kindergarten. He is a fantastic little boy who likes “boy” things like cars and Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles, but he REALLY likes many “girl” things like Doc McStuffins, Minnie Mouse and My Little Pony. He is the most interesting 5-year-old boy I know. When we were at the store, he picked out a My Little Pony lunchbox for school. He was very excited! His mom is worried he will get picked on, and so am I, but I am also concerned about send...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58339536@www.sltrib.com Thu, 04 Sep 2014 01:01:03 MDT Good leader? Sister is a control freak http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58339534-223/party-sister-visit-carolyn.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58339534-223/party-sister-visit-carolyn.html.csp">Good leader? Sister is a control freak</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-08-30T01:01:03.333-06:00">Updated Aug 30, 2014 01:01AM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">Dear Carolyn • I have no idea why this annoys me this much, but my sister is a control freak. Recent example is that her husband and daughter will be visiting for a single overnight, but of course they can’t call and make arrangements themselves. So she calls with a demand that we throw a party for my father the night they’re here. Does my father want this party? No. Will my brother and his family contribute? No, but they’ll show up to inhale food. Every single person, including the 8- and 12-ye...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58339534@www.sltrib.com Sat, 30 Aug 2014 01:01:03 MDT Baby’s name will not ease family’s guilt http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58339535-223/family-child-baby-ben.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58339535-223/family-child-baby-ben.html.csp">Baby’s name will not ease family’s guilt</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-08-30T01:01:03.519-06:00">Updated Aug 30, 2014 01:01AM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">Dear Carolyn • My husband and I are expecting our first child. We have been receiving a lot of family pressure to name him after my uncle “Ben.” Ben suffered from severe depression and bipolar disorder his entire life; two years ago he committed suicide. There was quite the family drama 10 years ago, and our relationship with him was severed. I never knew the whole story except that the incident was “unforgivable.” Understandably, the entire situation is surrounded by “what-ifs.” There is a lot ...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58339535@www.sltrib.com Sat, 30 Aug 2014 01:01:03 MDT Parents pampering weakens their kids http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58310201-223/sisters-parents-ago-angrier.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58310201-223/sisters-parents-ago-angrier.html.csp">Parents pampering weakens their kids</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-08-28T14:33:23.55-06:00">Updated Aug 28, 2014 02:33PM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">While I’m away, readers give the advice. On not raising a bully • So often we hear today about “helicopter” parents who, in the words of the old hymn, try with all their might to keep their little “special” darlings, “safe and secure from all alarm.” Cannot be done and even should not be done. If one is not taught how to fight back or does not learn early on about the slings and arrows of misfortune, then he/she limps into adulthood and soon realizes that his/her parents did no great favors in...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58310201@www.sltrib.com Thu, 28 Aug 2014 14:33:23 MDT Lessons to be taught by telling the truth http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58310198-223/daughter-quit-lie-quitting.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58310198-223/daughter-quit-lie-quitting.html.csp">Lessons to be taught by telling the truth</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-08-26T01:01:02.867-06:00">Updated Aug 26, 2014 01:01AM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">While I’m away, readers give the advice. On undoing a lie you’ve told to your child • Consider the smoking mom (http://wapo.st.1oAyUOI) who lied to her child about smoking: How about ‘fess up AND quit? Sit the daughter down, say she has something important to talk with her about, and then come clean. Something like ... “Remember when you asked if I smoke? Well, I lied to you about it. It was my cigarettes you smelled. I’m very sorry for lying. It was the wrong thing to do. I was afraid that if...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58310198@www.sltrib.com Tue, 26 Aug 2014 01:01:02 MDT Different responses to atrocious behavior http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58310197-223/law-advice-bad-behavior.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58310197-223/law-advice-bad-behavior.html.csp">Different responses to atrocious behavior</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-08-23T01:01:03.01-06:00">Updated Aug 23, 2014 01:01AM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">While I’m away, readers give the advice. On being called out for bad-mouthing • Many years ago, while staying with my mother-in-law and brother-in-law, I overheard them saying negative things about something I had done. Later in the afternoon, I told my mother-in-law that I had heard them. I was close to tears but explained myself. I also said I didn’t want this to come between us so I thought I should tell her that I had heard her. Who knows, there may have been truth in what they said, but t...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58310197@www.sltrib.com Sat, 23 Aug 2014 01:01:03 MDT Doggy dinner time is a bone of contention http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58285204-223/dog-boyfriend-women-break.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58285204-223/dog-boyfriend-women-break.html.csp">Doggy dinner time is a bone of contention</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-08-21T01:01:03.671-06:00">Updated Aug 21, 2014 01:01AM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">Dear Carolyn • I read your piece about the girlfriend who forbids her boyfriend to talk to other girls. I agree this seems like abusive, controlling behavior. However, I wonder where the line is between being controlling, and being a victim. For instance, what if the boyfriend was a big flirt, or a serial cheater, and was, in fact, having sex with several women. Suppose she asked him to stop hanging out with other women and he refused, telling her she couldn’t control who his friends were. Then ...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58285204@www.sltrib.com Thu, 21 Aug 2014 01:01:03 MDT Woman is eager to become stepmom http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58285203-223/son-boyfriend-child-carolyn.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58285203-223/son-boyfriend-child-carolyn.html.csp">Woman is eager to become stepmom</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-08-19T01:01:02.326-06:00">Updated Aug 19, 2014 01:01AM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">Dear Carolyn • I am a 32-year-old woman who has been dating a wonderful man for a little over a year. We are now making lifelong plans together, starting with the process of looking for a new home to move into together. My boyfriend has joint custody over his 5-year-old son, who until now, has lived solely with his mom. We are looking at homes with the idea that his son would live with us half the time. His son and I have a very good relationship. He’s a sweetheart and I welcome him living with ...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58285203@www.sltrib.com Tue, 19 Aug 2014 01:01:02 MDT Spouse’s gay affair leads to divorce http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58285200-223/step-family-spouse-carolyn.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58285200-223/step-family-spouse-carolyn.html.csp">Spouse’s gay affair leads to divorce</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-08-17T18:22:50.531-06:00">Updated Aug 17, 2014 06:22PM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">Dear Carolyn • My spouse told me earlier this week that he/she wants a divorce. I had a gay affair. I was pushing for us to work past this. We both love each other, but I guess emotional love isn’t enough. The thing is — I don’t even know where to start. I can’t tell my family. I don’t want to come out. I feel like a failure. No one in my family is divorced. We have no kids and agreed to split everything 50/50, so this will be painful but not spiteful. Is there a step-by-step guide to this? Wher...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58285200@www.sltrib.com Sun, 17 Aug 2014 18:22:50 MDT Recovery doesn’t seem to be going very well http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58263406-223/recovery-wife-carolyn-problem.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58263406-223/recovery-wife-carolyn-problem.html.csp">Recovery doesn’t seem to be going very well</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-08-12T01:01:02.822-06:00">Updated Aug 12, 2014 01:01AM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">Dear Carolyn • Whenever I am at a party with my wife’s girlfriend, she flirts with me. No ... not flirt; groping and teasing is a better description. Sticking her hands in my back pockets, grabbing my butt. When I went to kiss her goodnight (on the cheek), she grabbed my face, said, “On the lips,” and then kissed me. First time it happened was when I showed up at a party without my wife, and she said, “I am SO glad you are here alone!” I got caught cheating 0on my wife two years ago. I am in “re...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58263406@www.sltrib.com Tue, 12 Aug 2014 01:01:02 MDT Help! I have nothing in common with son http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58263405-223/carolyn-dear-games-interests.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58263405-223/carolyn-dear-games-interests.html.csp">Help! I have nothing in common with son</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-08-09T01:01:03.27-06:00">Updated Aug 9, 2014 01:01AM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">Dear Carolyn • My only son is 8 and is all boy — he’s into loud noises, sports and being outdoors, and has no interest in unnecessary chitchat. I wouldn’t trade him for the world, but sometimes I can’t believe he came from me: talker, analyzer, world-class shopper, and above all an indoor girl. I’m wondering how to stay connected with him as he gets older. I go to his games, but that’s more of a thing he shares with his dad and I feel a bit like an outsider there. Asking questions about his inte...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58263405@www.sltrib.com Sat, 09 Aug 2014 01:01:03 MDT Traveling with kids is a difficult endeavor http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58233939-223/family-kids-carolyn-travel.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58233939-223/family-kids-carolyn-travel.html.csp">Traveling with kids is a difficult endeavor</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-08-07T01:01:07.331-06:00">Updated Aug 7, 2014 01:01AM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">Dear Carolyn • I once considered “family time” important enough that family travel became an item in our monthly budget so money would never be a reason for not visiting family. Now, with three small kids in tow, I am dreading our yearly trips. I would happily cancel this year’s to save the hassle of days in the car with kids, sleeping in unfamiliar places, and the weeks of poor sleep the youngest experiences when we return. In all honesty, I’d skip two years of trips. But family is still import...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58233939@www.sltrib.com Thu, 07 Aug 2014 01:01:07 MDT Lies of omission catch up with single mom http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58233936-223/brother-sons-angry-carolyn.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58233936-223/brother-sons-angry-carolyn.html.csp">Lies of omission catch up with single mom</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-08-05T01:01:02.501-06:00">Updated Aug 5, 2014 01:01AM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">Dear Carolyn • I raised two boys by myself since I was pregnant with the second. I divorced the boys’ father because of his emotional abuse, drinking and suspected drug use. I raised my kids without ever hinting that I had been married twice briefly before, too young, in marriages that produced no children. My sons are now 18 and 21 and are healthy, well-adjusted kids. One just finished college and one is on his way. My older brother decided to inform my 18-year-old of my two previous marriages ...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58233936@www.sltrib.com Tue, 05 Aug 2014 01:01:02 MDT