CAROLYN - The Salt Lake Tribune http://www.sltrib.com/feeds/topics/CAROLYN News from The Salt Lake Tribune en-us webmaster@sltrib.com (Webmaster) Good leader? Sister is a control freak http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58339534-223/party-sister-visit-carolyn.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58339534-223/party-sister-visit-carolyn.html.csp">Good leader? Sister is a control freak</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-08-30T01:01:03.333-06:00">Updated Aug 30, 2014 01:01AM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">Dear Carolyn • I have no idea why this annoys me this much, but my sister is a control freak. Recent example is that her husband and daughter will be visiting for a single overnight, but of course they can’t call and make arrangements themselves. So she calls with a demand that we throw a party for my father the night they’re here. Does my father want this party? No. Will my brother and his family contribute? No, but they’ll show up to inhale food. Every single person, including the 8- and 12-ye...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58339534@www.sltrib.com Sat, 30 Aug 2014 01:01:03 MDT Baby’s name will not ease family’s guilt http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58339535-223/family-child-baby-ben.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58339535-223/family-child-baby-ben.html.csp">Baby’s name will not ease family’s guilt</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-08-30T01:01:03.519-06:00">Updated Aug 30, 2014 01:01AM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">Dear Carolyn • My husband and I are expecting our first child. We have been receiving a lot of family pressure to name him after my uncle “Ben.” Ben suffered from severe depression and bipolar disorder his entire life; two years ago he committed suicide. There was quite the family drama 10 years ago, and our relationship with him was severed. I never knew the whole story except that the incident was “unforgivable.” Understandably, the entire situation is surrounded by “what-ifs.” There is a lot ...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58339535@www.sltrib.com Sat, 30 Aug 2014 01:01:03 MDT Parents pampering weakens their kids http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58310201-223/sisters-parents-ago-angrier.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58310201-223/sisters-parents-ago-angrier.html.csp">Parents pampering weakens their kids</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-08-28T14:33:23.55-06:00">Updated Aug 28, 2014 02:33PM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">While I’m away, readers give the advice. On not raising a bully • So often we hear today about “helicopter” parents who, in the words of the old hymn, try with all their might to keep their little “special” darlings, “safe and secure from all alarm.” Cannot be done and even should not be done. If one is not taught how to fight back or does not learn early on about the slings and arrows of misfortune, then he/she limps into adulthood and soon realizes that his/her parents did no great favors in...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58310201@www.sltrib.com Thu, 28 Aug 2014 14:33:23 MDT Lessons to be taught by telling the truth http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58310198-223/daughter-quit-lie-quitting.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58310198-223/daughter-quit-lie-quitting.html.csp">Lessons to be taught by telling the truth</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-08-26T01:01:02.867-06:00">Updated Aug 26, 2014 01:01AM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">While I’m away, readers give the advice. On undoing a lie you’ve told to your child • Consider the smoking mom (http://wapo.st.1oAyUOI) who lied to her child about smoking: How about ‘fess up AND quit? Sit the daughter down, say she has something important to talk with her about, and then come clean. Something like ... “Remember when you asked if I smoke? Well, I lied to you about it. It was my cigarettes you smelled. I’m very sorry for lying. It was the wrong thing to do. I was afraid that if...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58310198@www.sltrib.com Tue, 26 Aug 2014 01:01:02 MDT Different responses to atrocious behavior http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58310197-223/law-advice-bad-behavior.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58310197-223/law-advice-bad-behavior.html.csp">Different responses to atrocious behavior</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-08-23T01:01:03.01-06:00">Updated Aug 23, 2014 01:01AM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">While I’m away, readers give the advice. On being called out for bad-mouthing • Many years ago, while staying with my mother-in-law and brother-in-law, I overheard them saying negative things about something I had done. Later in the afternoon, I told my mother-in-law that I had heard them. I was close to tears but explained myself. I also said I didn’t want this to come between us so I thought I should tell her that I had heard her. Who knows, there may have been truth in what they said, but t...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58310197@www.sltrib.com Sat, 23 Aug 2014 01:01:03 MDT Doggy dinner time is a bone of contention http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58285204-223/dog-boyfriend-women-break.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58285204-223/dog-boyfriend-women-break.html.csp">Doggy dinner time is a bone of contention</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-08-21T01:01:03.671-06:00">Updated Aug 21, 2014 01:01AM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">Dear Carolyn • I read your piece about the girlfriend who forbids her boyfriend to talk to other girls. I agree this seems like abusive, controlling behavior. However, I wonder where the line is between being controlling, and being a victim. For instance, what if the boyfriend was a big flirt, or a serial cheater, and was, in fact, having sex with several women. Suppose she asked him to stop hanging out with other women and he refused, telling her she couldn’t control who his friends were. Then ...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58285204@www.sltrib.com Thu, 21 Aug 2014 01:01:03 MDT Woman is eager to become stepmom http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58285203-223/son-boyfriend-child-carolyn.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58285203-223/son-boyfriend-child-carolyn.html.csp">Woman is eager to become stepmom</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-08-19T01:01:02.326-06:00">Updated Aug 19, 2014 01:01AM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">Dear Carolyn • I am a 32-year-old woman who has been dating a wonderful man for a little over a year. We are now making lifelong plans together, starting with the process of looking for a new home to move into together. My boyfriend has joint custody over his 5-year-old son, who until now, has lived solely with his mom. We are looking at homes with the idea that his son would live with us half the time. His son and I have a very good relationship. He’s a sweetheart and I welcome him living with ...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58285203@www.sltrib.com Tue, 19 Aug 2014 01:01:02 MDT Spouse’s gay affair leads to divorce http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58285200-223/step-family-spouse-carolyn.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58285200-223/step-family-spouse-carolyn.html.csp">Spouse’s gay affair leads to divorce</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-08-17T18:22:50.531-06:00">Updated Aug 17, 2014 06:22PM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">Dear Carolyn • My spouse told me earlier this week that he/she wants a divorce. I had a gay affair. I was pushing for us to work past this. We both love each other, but I guess emotional love isn’t enough. The thing is — I don’t even know where to start. I can’t tell my family. I don’t want to come out. I feel like a failure. No one in my family is divorced. We have no kids and agreed to split everything 50/50, so this will be painful but not spiteful. Is there a step-by-step guide to this? Wher...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58285200@www.sltrib.com Sun, 17 Aug 2014 18:22:50 MDT Recovery doesn’t seem to be going very well http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58263406-223/recovery-wife-carolyn-problem.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58263406-223/recovery-wife-carolyn-problem.html.csp">Recovery doesn’t seem to be going very well</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-08-12T01:01:02.822-06:00">Updated Aug 12, 2014 01:01AM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">Dear Carolyn • Whenever I am at a party with my wife’s girlfriend, she flirts with me. No ... not flirt; groping and teasing is a better description. Sticking her hands in my back pockets, grabbing my butt. When I went to kiss her goodnight (on the cheek), she grabbed my face, said, “On the lips,” and then kissed me. First time it happened was when I showed up at a party without my wife, and she said, “I am SO glad you are here alone!” I got caught cheating 0on my wife two years ago. I am in “re...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58263406@www.sltrib.com Tue, 12 Aug 2014 01:01:02 MDT Help! I have nothing in common with son http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58263405-223/carolyn-dear-games-interests.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58263405-223/carolyn-dear-games-interests.html.csp">Help! I have nothing in common with son</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-08-09T01:01:03.27-06:00">Updated Aug 9, 2014 01:01AM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">Dear Carolyn • My only son is 8 and is all boy — he’s into loud noises, sports and being outdoors, and has no interest in unnecessary chitchat. I wouldn’t trade him for the world, but sometimes I can’t believe he came from me: talker, analyzer, world-class shopper, and above all an indoor girl. I’m wondering how to stay connected with him as he gets older. I go to his games, but that’s more of a thing he shares with his dad and I feel a bit like an outsider there. Asking questions about his inte...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58263405@www.sltrib.com Sat, 09 Aug 2014 01:01:03 MDT Traveling with kids is a difficult endeavor http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58233939-223/family-kids-carolyn-travel.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58233939-223/family-kids-carolyn-travel.html.csp">Traveling with kids is a difficult endeavor</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-08-07T01:01:07.331-06:00">Updated Aug 7, 2014 01:01AM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">Dear Carolyn • I once considered “family time” important enough that family travel became an item in our monthly budget so money would never be a reason for not visiting family. Now, with three small kids in tow, I am dreading our yearly trips. I would happily cancel this year’s to save the hassle of days in the car with kids, sleeping in unfamiliar places, and the weeks of poor sleep the youngest experiences when we return. In all honesty, I’d skip two years of trips. But family is still import...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58233939@www.sltrib.com Thu, 07 Aug 2014 01:01:07 MDT Lies of omission catch up with single mom http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58233936-223/brother-sons-angry-carolyn.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58233936-223/brother-sons-angry-carolyn.html.csp">Lies of omission catch up with single mom</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-08-05T01:01:02.501-06:00">Updated Aug 5, 2014 01:01AM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">Dear Carolyn • I raised two boys by myself since I was pregnant with the second. I divorced the boys’ father because of his emotional abuse, drinking and suspected drug use. I raised my kids without ever hinting that I had been married twice briefly before, too young, in marriages that produced no children. My sons are now 18 and 21 and are healthy, well-adjusted kids. One just finished college and one is on his way. My older brother decided to inform my 18-year-old of my two previous marriages ...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58233936@www.sltrib.com Tue, 05 Aug 2014 01:01:02 MDT Knowing when to cut ties with family http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58233935-223/family-member-carolyn-disappointing.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58233935-223/family-member-carolyn-disappointing.html.csp">Knowing when to cut ties with family</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-08-02T01:01:03.053-06:00">Updated Aug 2, 2014 01:01AM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">Dear Carolyn • In a past column (bit.ly/1BadDad), you talked about the difference between cutting off a harmful family member versus dealing with a disappointing one. If I read correctly, you were saying if the family member is merely a disappointment, then keep the lines of contact open (paraphrasing). I have a family member who definitely falls on the disappointing end of the scale, but I wonder how much disappointment I’m really supposed to take. Where’s the line? How far down do I need to ad...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58233935@www.sltrib.com Sat, 02 Aug 2014 01:01:03 MDT Your problem may not be with confrontation http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58211169-223/mable-husband-mess-allen.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58211169-223/mable-husband-mess-allen.html.csp">Your problem may not be with confrontation</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-07-31T01:01:02.455-06:00">Updated Jul 31, 2014 01:01AM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">Dear Carolyn • My husband and I are expecting a visit from my brother “Allen” soon. He is on again with his on-again/off-again (mostly off) girlfriend “Mable.” I consider Mable one of my close friends, but I openly admit she is a total slob. My husband has said that if Allen brings Mable when he visits, she is not welcome in our home. My husband likes Mable too, but he doesn’t want our house taken over by Mable’s mess. I am very nonconfrontational, and am already dreading telling my brother the ...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58211169@www.sltrib.com Thu, 31 Jul 2014 01:01:02 MDT Question of ‘is this all there is’ creeping in http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58211165-223/carolyn-dear-boyfriend-family.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58211165-223/carolyn-dear-boyfriend-family.html.csp">Question of ‘is this all there is’ creeping in</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-07-26T01:01:02.865-06:00">Updated Jul 26, 2014 01:01AM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">Dear Carolyn • I’m in my mid-40s and I guess finally having my midlife crisis. After watching my friend’s husband die of brain cancer at 52, I’m acutely aware that life can change in an instant. I am happily married and have a young daughter, but seem to be wondering, “Is this all there is?” I really want a change, to make the most of the time I have left with my family. How do I get rid of this feeling that my time is running out? 45 Dear 45 • Interesting timing. I received this question the ...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58211165@www.sltrib.com Sat, 26 Jul 2014 01:01:02 MDT Letter: Freedom to impose on others? http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/opinion/58216886-82/freedom-impose-religion-age.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/opinion/58216886-82/freedom-impose-religion-age.html.csp">Letter: Freedom to impose on others?</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-07-25T16:00:02.454-06:00">Updated Jul 25, 2014 04:00PM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">I must have missed something in that high school civics class: Since when did freedom of religion mean we have the right to discriminate against someone (religion, gender, race, sexual orientation, age, etc.) by imposing our own perceptions on others? Carolyn Sanders Holladay</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58216886@www.sltrib.com Fri, 25 Jul 2014 16:00:02 MDT Finding inner peace is priority No. 1 http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58183824-223/months-guy-relationship-carolyn.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58183824-223/months-guy-relationship-carolyn.html.csp">Finding inner peace is priority No. 1</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-07-23T01:01:03.189-06:00">Updated Jul 23, 2014 01:01AM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">Dear Carolyn • I’m 26, he’s 27. Dated for about a year, fell hard and fast, moved in together after about six months and were beginning to talk about getting engaged. I thought I had found the one. But I messed up several times during the relationship and hurt him(never physically cheating). Two months ago an incident happened that was the last straw, and he ended the relationship and moved out. I really do love him and want to be with him. Over the last two months, I’ve tried to repair the rela...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58183824@www.sltrib.com Wed, 23 Jul 2014 01:01:03 MDT Grandma hurt by mother’s power play http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58183823-223/grandma-call-carolyn-granddaughter.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58183823-223/grandma-call-carolyn-granddaughter.html.csp">Grandma hurt by mother’s power play</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-07-22T01:01:02.239-06:00">Updated Jul 22, 2014 01:01AM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">Dear Carolyn • When my son’s eldest started to talk, I encouraged her to call me “G-ma” because I didn’t care for “Grandma.” She never could learn G-ma, but instead called me Mamaji. I thought this was adorable and very special since it was her own idea. I became Mamaji. It is my email, user ID, I even had a T-shirt made! Not a word was said against it. After giving birth to their second child almost four years later, I was informed that their mother did not want her children to call me by that...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58183823@www.sltrib.com Tue, 22 Jul 2014 01:01:02 MDT Book club disagrees with Carolyn’s advice http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58183822-223/carolyn-community-advice-agree.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58183822-223/carolyn-community-advice-agree.html.csp">Book club disagrees with Carolyn’s advice</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-07-19T01:01:02.808-06:00">Updated Jul 19, 2014 01:01AM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">Dear Carolyn • I almost always agree with your advice, or don’t strongly disagree, but this is an exception (bit.ly/2hrMove), about moving two hours away for a husband’s promotion. What’s the big deal? Nine of the 11 members of my women’s book club said of course they would move. Of the dissenters, both are caring for ill family members. Three of us have moved to support our husbands’ careers and one husband has moved to support his wife. In this day of Internet communication, this is nothing. T...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58183822@www.sltrib.com Sat, 19 Jul 2014 01:01:02 MDT Finding your place in a competitive family http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58158108-223/family-carolyn-game-games.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58158108-223/family-carolyn-game-games.html.csp">Finding your place in a competitive family</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-07-17T01:01:02.498-06:00">Updated Jul 17, 2014 01:01AM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">Dear Carolyn • My husband’s family likes to play games, like pingpong, bean-bag toss or cards. I am not a real fan of games, I get incredibly self-conscious and I am not very good at most of them. Several of his family members are very competitive and the pressure to play well doesn’t help. My husband is pretty good at playing when he feels like it and saying no when he doesn’t feel like it. But whenever I try to bow out, his aunts or others family members will convince me to play. I just don’t ...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58158108@www.sltrib.com Thu, 17 Jul 2014 01:01:02 MDT