CAROLYN - The Salt Lake Tribune http://www.sltrib.com/feeds/topics/CAROLYN News from The Salt Lake Tribune en-us webmaster@sltrib.com (Webmaster) Question of ‘is this all there is’ creeping in http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58211165-223/carolyn-dear-boyfriend-family.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58211165-223/carolyn-dear-boyfriend-family.html.csp">Question of ‘is this all there is’ creeping in</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-07-26T01:01:02.865-06:00">Updated Jul 26, 2014 01:01AM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">Dear Carolyn • I’m in my mid-40s and I guess finally having my midlife crisis. After watching my friend’s husband die of brain cancer at 52, I’m acutely aware that life can change in an instant. I am happily married and have a young daughter, but seem to be wondering, “Is this all there is?” I really want a change, to make the most of the time I have left with my family. How do I get rid of this feeling that my time is running out? 45 Dear 45 • Interesting timing. I received this question the ...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58211165@www.sltrib.com Sat, 26 Jul 2014 01:01:02 MDT Letter: Freedom to impose on others? http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/opinion/58216886-82/freedom-impose-religion-age.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/opinion/58216886-82/freedom-impose-religion-age.html.csp">Letter: Freedom to impose on others?</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-07-25T16:00:02.454-06:00">Updated Jul 25, 2014 04:00PM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">I must have missed something in that high school civics class: Since when did freedom of religion mean we have the right to discriminate against someone (religion, gender, race, sexual orientation, age, etc.) by imposing our own perceptions on others? Carolyn Sanders Holladay</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58216886@www.sltrib.com Fri, 25 Jul 2014 16:00:02 MDT Finding inner peace is priority No. 1 http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58183824-223/months-guy-relationship-carolyn.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58183824-223/months-guy-relationship-carolyn.html.csp">Finding inner peace is priority No. 1</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-07-23T01:01:03.189-06:00">Updated Jul 23, 2014 01:01AM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">Dear Carolyn • I’m 26, he’s 27. Dated for about a year, fell hard and fast, moved in together after about six months and were beginning to talk about getting engaged. I thought I had found the one. But I messed up several times during the relationship and hurt him(never physically cheating). Two months ago an incident happened that was the last straw, and he ended the relationship and moved out. I really do love him and want to be with him. Over the last two months, I’ve tried to repair the rela...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58183824@www.sltrib.com Wed, 23 Jul 2014 01:01:03 MDT Grandma hurt by mother’s power play http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58183823-223/grandma-call-carolyn-granddaughter.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58183823-223/grandma-call-carolyn-granddaughter.html.csp">Grandma hurt by mother’s power play</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-07-22T01:01:02.239-06:00">Updated Jul 22, 2014 01:01AM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">Dear Carolyn • When my son’s eldest started to talk, I encouraged her to call me “G-ma” because I didn’t care for “Grandma.” She never could learn G-ma, but instead called me Mamaji. I thought this was adorable and very special since it was her own idea. I became Mamaji. It is my email, user ID, I even had a T-shirt made! Not a word was said against it. After giving birth to their second child almost four years later, I was informed that their mother did not want her children to call me by that...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58183823@www.sltrib.com Tue, 22 Jul 2014 01:01:02 MDT Book club disagrees with Carolyn’s advice http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58183822-223/carolyn-community-advice-agree.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58183822-223/carolyn-community-advice-agree.html.csp">Book club disagrees with Carolyn’s advice</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-07-19T01:01:02.808-06:00">Updated Jul 19, 2014 01:01AM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">Dear Carolyn • I almost always agree with your advice, or don’t strongly disagree, but this is an exception (bit.ly/2hrMove), about moving two hours away for a husband’s promotion. What’s the big deal? Nine of the 11 members of my women’s book club said of course they would move. Of the dissenters, both are caring for ill family members. Three of us have moved to support our husbands’ careers and one husband has moved to support his wife. In this day of Internet communication, this is nothing. T...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58183822@www.sltrib.com Sat, 19 Jul 2014 01:01:02 MDT Finding your place in a competitive family http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58158108-223/family-carolyn-game-games.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58158108-223/family-carolyn-game-games.html.csp">Finding your place in a competitive family</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-07-17T01:01:02.498-06:00">Updated Jul 17, 2014 01:01AM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">Dear Carolyn • My husband’s family likes to play games, like pingpong, bean-bag toss or cards. I am not a real fan of games, I get incredibly self-conscious and I am not very good at most of them. Several of his family members are very competitive and the pressure to play well doesn’t help. My husband is pretty good at playing when he feels like it and saying no when he doesn’t feel like it. But whenever I try to bow out, his aunts or others family members will convince me to play. I just don’t ...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58158108@www.sltrib.com Thu, 17 Jul 2014 01:01:02 MDT Treat both sons and partners as equals http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58158105-223/family-carolyn-dear-older.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58158105-223/family-carolyn-dear-older.html.csp">Treat both sons and partners as equals</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-07-15T01:01:02.223-06:00">Updated Jul 15, 2014 01:01AM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">Dear Carolyn • I have two grown sons, 34 and 31, both responsible, hardworking guys. The older is married with a 3 1/2-year-old. The younger has never married but has two children, 2 and 6 months. They both live nearby and I have a good relationship with both and I adore all of my grandkids. I host most of the family functions and have a pool they all like to use. The older doesn’t like or respect the younger’s girlfriend and refuses to come to any family function where she is present. He has pu...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58158105@www.sltrib.com Tue, 15 Jul 2014 01:01:02 MDT Everything is harder done than easily said http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58158104-223/figuring-carolyn-done-everything.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58158104-223/figuring-carolyn-done-everything.html.csp">Everything is harder done than easily said</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-07-12T01:01:03.18-06:00">Updated Jul 12, 2014 01:01AM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">Adapted from a recent online discussion. Dear Carolyn • Your suggestions to a bride worried about her mother’s likely meanness at her wedding (http://wapo.st/1n8s3tr) — in particular, saying, “It’s not about me” and deflecting barbs with cheery responses — sound nice in principle, but they strike me as a textbook case of “easier said than done.” Presumably Gandhi, Mother Teresa, Nelson Mandela or the Pope could/would be unruffled in the bride’s place, but I’d defy most ordinary mortals to be. I...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58158104@www.sltrib.com Sat, 12 Jul 2014 01:01:03 MDT Child’s behavior puts the brakes on visits http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58134079-223/emily-son-carolyn-issues.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58134079-223/emily-son-carolyn-issues.html.csp">Child’s behavior puts the brakes on visits</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-07-10T01:01:02.8-06:00">Updated Jul 10, 2014 01:01AM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">Dear Carolyn • I have two very close girlfriends who live in the same destination-friendly town, “Emily” from college and “Jane” from high school. Both have children the same age as mine, both mean a great deal to me. Every summer I visit both, trying to split equal time between the two. I can’t bear to be around Emily’s child. He is impulsive, defiant, has been outright malicious toward my son, and in one instance caused him physical harm. I have tried to confront her about my issues with him, ...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58134079@www.sltrib.com Thu, 10 Jul 2014 01:01:02 MDT Pointing out rudeness was within your rights http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58134076-223/manners-carolyn-dear-gentility.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58134076-223/manners-carolyn-dear-gentility.html.csp">Pointing out rudeness was within your rights</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-07-08T01:01:02.325-06:00">Updated Jul 8, 2014 01:01AM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">Dear Carolyn • We recently visited a local theme park, taking visiting relatives who have a 2-year-old. After a day of walking in 90-degree weather, we lined up for the tram to the parking lot. We were in the first line with a very large stroller that would fit only in that first row. As the tram stopped, a much younger mom with three children ran in front of us from another line and grabbed those seats. I was appalled. When we arrived at the parking lot, I told the young lady what she did was v...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58134076@www.sltrib.com Tue, 08 Jul 2014 01:01:02 MDT Constant little kisses show lack of respect http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58134074-223/mauled-think-kisses-carolyn.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58134074-223/mauled-think-kisses-carolyn.html.csp">Constant little kisses show lack of respect</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-07-04T01:01:02.077-06:00">Updated Jul 4, 2014 01:01AM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">Adapted from a recent online discussion. Dear Carolyn • I’ve been dating a really fantastic guy for a few weeks, and I’m very excited! The but? He gives me little kisses on my forehead and cheek and head constantly. Those sweet gestures would be appreciated once or twice a day, but I am literally being mauled, like, every three or four minutes. I’ve tried to gently explain that I’m not into that much PDA, but I don’t think he understands that I cringe when I see him going for my forehead. How d...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58134074@www.sltrib.com Fri, 04 Jul 2014 01:01:02 MDT One comment and it was like a fog lifted http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58105284-223/relationship-abusive-friend-bad.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58105284-223/relationship-abusive-friend-bad.html.csp">One comment and it was like a fog lifted</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-07-02T16:25:05.623-06:00">Updated Jul 2, 2014 04:25PM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">While I’m away, readers give the advice. On speaking up to friends in abusive relationships • Years ago I was in an emotionally abusive relationship that I couldn’t see for myself. I was recently divorced, my head was spinning and I was feeling like a horrible failure. I’ll never forget when a close friend asked me, “Do you realize you always make excuses for her behavior?” Suddenly my mental fog lifted. It was a moment that changed my life and led to me ending the abusive relationship. Years...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58105284@www.sltrib.com Wed, 02 Jul 2014 16:25:05 MDT Going gluten-free has many positive effects http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58105281-223/child-diet-gone-spend.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58105281-223/child-diet-gone-spend.html.csp">Going gluten-free has many positive effects</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-06-28T01:01:03.496-06:00">Updated Jun 28, 2014 01:01AM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">While I’m away, readers give the advice. On the scorn directed at people who “self diagnose” food intolerances • I’ve been on a gluten-free diet for nearly three years after my daughter, who suffers from Celiac disease, kept saying to me, “Mom, I got it from either you or dad.” In my case, the psoriasis diagnosed by a qualified dermatologist in 1968 is GONE. I spent literally thousands of dollars for medications and treatments for over half of my life to fight it, and after over a year on the...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58105281@www.sltrib.com Sat, 28 Jun 2014 01:01:03 MDT Strike a balance when teaching your children http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58105283-223/goal-really-teaching-actually.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58105283-223/goal-really-teaching-actually.html.csp">Strike a balance when teaching your children</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-07-01T01:01:02.869-06:00">Updated Jul 1, 2014 01:01AM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">While I’m away, readers give the advice. On “never leaving my children with a stranger” • You’ve had a built-in audience for this, because your children are always present, watching your decisions. What they’re learning is that everyone’s to be feared until they’ve proven themselves. If that’s the message you want them to take away, then I’d suggest being prepared for them to take your position to the opposite extreme. There are true red flags out there, people who are legitimately untrustwor...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58105283@www.sltrib.com Tue, 01 Jul 2014 01:01:02 MDT Focus on those who rally to your cause http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58075330-223/hurt-pout-walk-carolyn.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58075330-223/hurt-pout-walk-carolyn.html.csp">Focus on those who rally to your cause</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-06-26T01:01:02.385-06:00">Updated Jun 26, 2014 01:01AM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">Dear Carolyn • Two years ago my adult daughter was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis. She is very optimistic and has taken part in fundraisers because she feels she owes it to those who came before her who did the same. We formed a team for our local MS Walk last year and invited our co-workers and members from my very large family to donate or walk or both. Unfortunately, my enthusiasm for the walk turned to hurt when her aunts and others we thought were close did nothing. My daughter is the ty...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58075330@www.sltrib.com Thu, 26 Jun 2014 01:01:02 MDT Either way you choose, you pay dearly for it http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58075328-223/husband-carolyn-consequences-dearly.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58075328-223/husband-carolyn-consequences-dearly.html.csp">Either way you choose, you pay dearly for it</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-06-24T21:36:06.411-06:00">Updated Jun 24, 2014 09:36PM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">Dear Carolyn • Five years ago, my mother became unable to continue living alone, so she came to live with me, my husband and two young children. As she physically declined, she paid for upgrades to our home that allowed her to stay with us longer. However, in the last year she began to fail and I was diagnosed with a chronic illness, so we made the difficult decision for her to move into assisted living. Now, my mother-in-law is unable live to alone. Unbeknownst to us, my husband’s sisters put h...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58075328@www.sltrib.com Tue, 24 Jun 2014 21:36:06 MDT Weight isn’t the real issue at play here http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58075325-223/weight-carolyn-dear-girlfriend.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58075325-223/weight-carolyn-dear-girlfriend.html.csp">Weight isn’t the real issue at play here</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-06-21T01:01:02.702-06:00">Updated Jun 21, 2014 01:01AM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">Dear Carolyn • My girlfriend is overweight — more so since we started dating — and I’m becoming less attracted to her. I’m hesitant to discuss this with her because I don’t want to project my own insecurities or expectations on her. I used to be overweight but slimmed down because I don’t want to suffer the health problems that run in my family. She also seems to be insecure about her appearance, and I don’t want to aggravate that insecurity. She doesn’t like talking about emotional stuff, parti...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58075325@www.sltrib.com Sat, 21 Jun 2014 01:01:02 MDT No easy fix when you crush on friend’s girl http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58047165-223/carolyn-dear-baby-bad.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58047165-223/carolyn-dear-baby-bad.html.csp">No easy fix when you crush on friend’s girl</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-06-19T01:01:01.89-06:00">Updated Jun 19, 2014 01:01AM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">Dear Carolyn • About a year ago I developed a crush on a female friend, whose boyfriend I also know independently of her. I suspect the attraction was mutual but we never acted on it. However, I am pretty sure the boyfriend noticed, because I am pretty sure he hates me. Seething hatred. He tries to hide it and behave cordially toward me, but the tension is obvious. I’ve tried reaching out to him to hang out, but it always feels forced. Any suggestions for defusing this tension? Hated Dear Hate...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58047165@www.sltrib.com Thu, 19 Jun 2014 01:01:01 MDT Things are fine until son says otherwise http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58047164-223/bill-son-carolyn-doesn.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58047164-223/bill-son-carolyn-doesn.html.csp">Things are fine until son says otherwise</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-06-17T01:01:02.751-06:00">Updated Jun 17, 2014 01:01AM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">Dear Carolyn • Our 28-year-old son “Bill” has been married for five years to a woman we are slowly starting to resent. “Jennifer” is working on an advanced degree in Italian. She took the opportunity to study abroad for a year in Italy, and Bill suspended his own career path to go to Italy as well. They ended up living in separate cities. Shortly after returning to the states she took a job as a flight attendant, which means she spends days at a time away from home. She has recently received two...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58047164@www.sltrib.com Tue, 17 Jun 2014 01:01:02 MDT View sister’s writing as art, not as reality http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58047163-223/family-sister-art-carolyn.html.csp <div class="hnews hentry item"> <h4><a class="url entry-title" href="http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/entertainment2/58047163-223/family-sister-art-carolyn.html.csp">View sister’s writing as art, not as reality</a></h4> <h5><span class="updated" title="2014-06-15T19:05:50.145-06:00">Updated Jun 15, 2014 07:05PM MDT</span></h5> <div class ="entry-content">Dear Carolyn • I’ve got a question into which you might have particular insight. My sister writes weekly first-person features for a regionally well-known magazine. Recently I’ve noticed that she sometimes makes our family sound like caricatures of ourselves, and not always in a positive way. Mom is a little pushy; Sis casts her as a boundary-challenged social oaf. Sis and I have a small spat; Sis paints it as the hugest deal ever. I get that it’s a little like stage makeup — the mythological pr...</div> <h5><a rel="item-license" href="http://www.sltrib.com/pages/privacy"> Copyright 2013 The Salt Lake Tribune. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.</a></h5> </div> 58047163@www.sltrib.com Sun, 15 Jun 2014 19:05:50 MDT